| The bulk of this article is from the chapter I have written
for the forthcoming book "Walking in two worlds: The Relational
Self in theory, practice, and community," edited by Stephen
Gilligan and Dvorah Simon, and published by Zeig, Tucker & Theisen,
Inc. This book is available from various sources. |
Let me begin by piecing together for you, how my work relates to Self-relations
therapy. Some twenty five years ago I began to study psychology and
Ericksonian hypnosis. The practice of hypnosis and self hypnosis began
to open me up to the immense possibilities of the power of one's thinking,
and the effect that one's thinking has on one's physical and emotional
well-being.
About three years into my study of hypnosis, a friend told me about
what he was learning in regard to coordinating his body with his spirit
or ki, as it was taught in the Japanese martial art of Aikido.
Based on his description I was hooked before even taking my first class,
and in a few years time found myself living in Japan and becoming a
full time Aikido student.
One of the major differences between my beginning understanding of hypnosis
and that of Aikido, was that I initially thought hynposis took place
in the head, and that Aikido was about learning how to use your body
differently. Later on, as I got a tiny bit more sophisticated in my
thinking I surmised that hypnosis took place "in the mind residing in
the head" while it seemed that my Aikido sensei was saying that
during Aikido the mind was meant to reside in the lower abdomen. As
my Aikido studies continued my sensei explained that indeed the
mind was eminent throughout the entire body, and we were told to place
the center of our mind in our lower abdomen and "think" and act from
there.
It was at just this point in time that I started to hear about an hypnosis
teacher in America by the name of Stephen Gilligan who was using what
he had learned in Aikido and his other awareness training as an adjunct
to his work in therapy and hypnosis. When I first went to Stephen's
classes it was a kind of homecoming for me. I was back in America, and
was studying with an American sensei, and this sensei was teaching a
form of therapy that matched many of the same things that I had learned
in Japan. One of the first things I learned as I began to study with
Stephen was hearing him tell his students to "Place your center in your
lower abdomen and feel yourself and your experience from this tender
place within yourself." This was very exciting to me as it exactly matched
the Aikido concept of placing the center of one's mind in the lower
abdomen.
Understanding from Aikido how to think without needing directions from
the brain in my skull and receiving that same wisdom from Stephen was
fascinating for me. One of my Seishindo students recently paid me a
great compliment when he said to me "Sensei, I have never met anyone
that can not think, better than you!" It is true, that after studying
Aikido for a while you notice that your ability to act spontaneously
and gracefully is actually aided by not using your rational mind as
the main source of your intelligence. And in this regard the similarities
between Aikido and Stephen's work started to become much clearer, as
I now understood from his training that the power of one's intellect
is not the main source of intelligence when one is in a trance.
In Aikido we learn to sense and react without needing to rationally
consider what is taking place. We occasionally used to play a game when
fooling around outside of the Aikido dojo. The game involved three students
and three metal cups turned upside down and sitting on a table. While
the students had their backs turned the teacher placed a small treat
like a piece of chocolate under one of the cups. The students would
be given a signal, and they would turn around and grab for the cup that
they thought had the treat underneath. Invariably certain students had
a high percentage of correct guesses, while other students rarely guessed
correctly. I would like to say that I gained a lot of weight from playing
this game and eating all of the candy, but this is not the case. Initially
I guessed incorrectly just as much as most students. It was only after
a period of trial and error that I began to understand how to switch
off my rational mind and rely on my intution. Little by little I began
to realize that the intelligence of the body (somatic intelligence)
plays an important role in our ability to relax, improvise, and react
gracefully in the face of challenge. Another important point that I
noticed from my practice was that the feeling I got when doing certain
Aikido relaxation exercises was very similar to the way I felt when
doing self hypnosis. By shifting my attention to my body (my somatic
self) in Aikido, I could relax in much the same way that I could when
shifting the way that I related to the thought processes of my cognitive
self in self hypnosis. Many times I have heard Stephen ask, "Where is
your attention now?" "Where in your body are you feeling your problem?"
Answering this line of questioning necessitates that we shift our main
focus of attention away from the cognitive self and towards the somatic
self.
The next piece in the puzzle that relates my work to Self-relations
is my study here in Japan of something known as Noguchi sei tai.
In Japanese sei tai can be said to mean "correctly organized
body" and "Noguchi" is the name of the teacher (sensei) that
created this particular form of sei tai. Noguchi Sensei
(1984)* had already passed away by the time I got to Japan, but his
students taught me how to do special exercises that allowed me to use
my body in a new way, and release my excess energy. Noguchi Sensei
used to say that the body and a spinning top are similar: "If a top
isn't spinning, and if a body isn't moving, you can't realize what they
are meant for and how to use them." One of his main premises was that
people tend to use unconsciously generated muscular tensing patterns
to organize their body and hold onto excess energy in their system.
He said that unconsciously tensing various parts of the body inhibits
the body's natural movements, and produces stress and excess tension
in the system. It is this holding onto excess energy and the concurrent
inhibition of movement that causes illness and less than full health
in general. It was his premise that the more serious a person's health
condition, the more they were holding onto excess energy. When you release
excess physical tension, you discover that your unconsciously generated
body movements change, along with your thoughts and your emotional state.
Noguchi sensei said that physical tension and emotional tension
are realized as two sides of the same coin. This is something that Stephen
also teaches in Self-relations.
A second premise of Noguchi sei tai, as I understand it, is that
you need to find a way to encourage and allow the unconscious organization
patterns of your body to release with a minimum of direction from your
conscious mind. In almost all instances attempting to consciously and
willfully change one's posture and physical holding patterns rarely
gets the results that one would desire. The simple reason for this being
that conscious thought processes usually involve unconsciously tensing
one's body, such that we freeze rather than free up the nervous system
and muscles, to act. In Self-relations terms we would say that the mind
that creates a problem is not the mind to use when looking to change
one's thoughts, feelings, and actions. The use of the conscious mind
as one's main source of intelligence is often not enough to get the
desired results.
Noguchi sensei developed special exercises to help accomplish
the unconsciously generated release of excess energy by entering into
a state of spontaneous movement. When practicing these exercises I soon
noticed that my experience was similar to what I achieved with my Aikido
and self-hypnosis practice. By this point in time I was beginning to
have a first hand experience of the two centers of control that each
person has: One located in the head (the cognitive self) and the other
located in the abdomen (the somatic self). It soon became apparent to
me that influencing one's behavior through mental strategies produced
different yet complementary experiences from influencing one's behavior
through tuning into the unconsciously generated intelligence of the
body.
For example, it is commonly known that well constructed affirmations/mantras
can help people to perform more effectively in life. I often suggest
to clients who want to be better public speakers that they develop a
mantra to the effect of "Relaxed, Confident, and Appreciating the Audience."
Such a mantra can often be quite effective, but the effect will be limited
if the client fails to realize that when he does public speaking, he
tends to tense his shoulders, round his posture, and breathe in a shallow
manner. Superior performance is thus best facilitated by concurrently
giving one's attention to both the communication of the cognitive self
in the form of a mantra, and the communication emanating from the somatic
self, in the form of posture, movement, and breath. Listening to both
"selves" simultaneously gives us the highest quality results. Repeating
one's mantra while concurrently feeling into, relaxing, and expanding,
one's physiology.
In my work with individual clients I began to experiment with having
them enter into a relaxed state of awareness by teaching them how to
tune into their breathing, posture, and unconsciously generated body
movements. I would have them sit on the front half of their chair, take
several deep breaths, and then begin to softly and gently adjust their
posture, by letting their body move in whatever way it wanted to. I
would say something like the following: "Jim, I am talking to you now,
and I would like to ask Jim to not move his body….. Instead, I would
like to ask your body to move itself, in whatever way it would like
to, whenever it is ready to do so, and without the well intentioned
advice of Jim." In the course of this work I soon began to see that
when people become actively aware of their body without attempting to
consciously change or direct what they are doing, that indeed the body
will begin to shift itself, without the need of conscious intervention.
The body knows what the body needs. This led me to understand that when
wanting to enter into a state of altered consciousness, being sensitive
to and subtly influencing the communication of the body was just as
important as being sensitive to and subtly influencing the verbal communication
that emanated from the brain in one's skull.
Although my individual practice and my work with clients was progressing
well, I still didn't quite have a complete model for understanding how
to coordinate and work with each person's dual intelligence - somatic
and cognitive. I was beginning to realize that the piece I was still
missing was finding a way to facilitate better communication between
the rational mind and the body. It is Stephen's work in what is now
called Self-relations therapy that helped me to finally synthesize a
model of working with people that melds the intelligence of the cognitive
self and the somatic self (our dual intelligence) into a single experience
of what is called in SR "the relational self." When we experience ourselves
as the relationship between our cognitive self and our somatic
self, and join this relationship to our interaction with the outside
world, we are able to better generate a sense of health and well-being.
S e i s h i n d o
What follows, is an explanation of the principles of the discipline
I have developed, called Seishindo. What I present can be an
aid in further understanding SR, and can also perhaps give you some
additional insight into how you think about and react to the world.     
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Notes
* "Order, Spontaneity and The Body" by Haruchika Noguchi;
Zensei Publishing Company, Tokyo, Japan.
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