|
[We fully realize that this exercise might prove to be a
bit too complicated for you to try out without having attended
a Seishindo workshop. Nonetheless, this is one of THE classic
Seishindo exercises and thus we wanted to introduce you to
the concepts involved. Hopefully you will enjoy your exploration.]
[We have not included hormonal changes as one of the somatic
variables. The reason for this is that we find it best to
work with variables that people can have fairly easy access
to altering. The seven variables we have chosen offer us great
potential for behavioral change, because we can have a reasonable
degree of conscious control over each of these variables,
and altering these variables will make the process of change
readily available to a wide range of people.]
A three person exercise: A Coach, an Observer, and a Client.
I) The Client discusses with the
Coach, a situation that is problematic.
II) While the Client is talking,
the Coach and Observer are to notice where possible, the following
seven variables, with the Observer taking terse notes on the
chart provided below:
1) Posture
- Especially note the tilt of the torso, and the shape of
the chest/rib cage. Consider the chest to be two wings joined
together at the sternum. In general: The chest should lead
from the sternum area and be rounded back towards the shoulders
ever so much. The torso should be tilted ever so much forward.
2) Balance
and carriage of the neck and head - People tend to
tilt their head to different positions depending on what they
are feeling and talking about. Some people tend to carry their
head forward of their torso, other people always have their
head facing down somewhat.
3) Micro
Muscular Body Movements - Does the Client seem to have
a somewhat rigid posture, or do they have fluid movement?
Fluid movements are usually best. If you are able to very
carefully notice, you can detect that the client rocks ever
so slightly in different directions, depending on what they
are thinking/talking about. (For instance: If a client rocks
from front to back when thinking about a specific topic that
has a positive connotation, they will tend to rock from side
to side when thinking about topics that have negative connotations.
Such movements are usually subtle, highly systematic, and
of great importance in regard to the way in which we think
and feel.) Hand movements, or lack of them can also be important
4) Breath
- Does the Client talk only after fully inhaling, or
do they talk without having fully inhaled? What location does
their breath seem to come from? (Stomach, Chest, Throat) In
general, it is best to breathe from the stomach and talk only
after fully inhaling. Copious breathing tends to calm the
system. Insufficient breath tends to make one feel anxious.
In general, when wanting to be more generative you will do
best to take deep breaths whenever you would normally pause
during the course of conversing, and particularly when you
pause to think about what you will say next. Use the breath
to slow down your system and also to slow down the pace of
your conversation.
5) Facial
expressions - Does the Client tense their eyes, or
mouth prior to talking? Do they smile even though they are
not talking about something that is pleasant?
6) The
movement and focus of the eyes - How do the eyes move
and focus depending on what is being thought about, felt,
or spoken?
7) Speed,
rhythm, tone, volume, and pausing of the verbal communication
- When wanting to make generative changes in one’s life, most
everyone does best speaking more slowly than usual when discussing
a problematic situation. In order to remain relaxed and solution
oriented, we usually do best to have: A resonate rhythm and
tone to the vocal pattern, moderate volume, and ample pausing
in between phrases, to allow for sufficient breathing, and
processing of what has just been said. When you significantly
slow down the pace of your talking, you significantly increase
the chance that you will actually feel what you are talking
about. Feeling what you are talking about is an important
thing to do.
III) Once the Client feels like
they have fully explained their situation (It is best that
they do this in not more than a minute or two, rather than
carrying on with a long winded explanation), the Coach and
Observer look at and amend the notes taken by the Observer,
and discuss what they noticed regarding the above seven variables,
and what variables they need to check out further in order
to gain useful information.
IV) Questions/Prompts
you might use to gather more information (for instance):
“Please rock your body some from front to back a little bit
and once you are rocking, please talk about your situation
once again.” Let them talk for no more than a minute, and
then thank them and ask them to stop. “This time I would like
you to rock your body from side to side and talk about your
situation a little bit more.” Again only a minute’s talking
maximum. Then ask them, “Does it seem easier or more natural
to talk about your situation when you are rocking front to
back or from side to side?” Usually the difference will be
fairly dramatic. Fill in their answer in the chart below.
Do the same with other variables as necessary, until most,
if not the whole chart is filled in.
V) Once the Coach feels they have all of the necessary
information, the Coach makes specific suggestions concerning
how the Client should use their body differently, and change
their pattern of speech. (When we say “pattern of speech”
we mean the pace, rhythm, tone, and volume, and NOT the actual
words.) In general, the Client is simply asked to change each
somatic variable so that they are doing something different
than what is usual for them. Once these instructions are given,
the Client is to tell their story once again.
For example:
If the Client’s trunk was tilted backwards to begin with,
you ask them to tilt forward.
If the Client initially had their head tilted to the left,
you suggest “Please tilt your head to the right.”
If the Client used their hands a lot while talking they are
asked to restrict their hand movements.
If the Client tended to keep their eyes up and to the left
while talking, ask them to look directly at you the whole
time.
Also, make sure the Client breathes sufficiently and speaks
slowly while pausing frequently. This variable in particular
is crucial.
If the Client does not continue to maintain the suggested
somatic changes, either give them terse instructions that
they can change as they continue talking, OR, have them stop,
tell them what they need to pay more attention to, and have
them start again from the beginning. The method you use here
is an aesthetic choice. If you feel they are maintaining the
old stuck pattern, it is VERY important that you give them
instructions that help them to correct each variable. Of course
you will want to maintain a pleasant relationship with them
while doing so.
Note: The Pace/Speed of their
talking and their Breathing Pattern are VERY important. Make
sure they maintain a SLOW pace, and BREATHE in between sentences
and when they are thinking.
VI) When the Client is finished
talking ask them what is different about their experience.
If you have worked well together there will definitely be
a change in the way the Client perceives and feels about their
situation.
The suggestion is:
Notice when new ideas and shifts in language usage lead to
meaningful bodily changes.
And notice when bodily changes lead to meaningful changes
in language usage (including thinking and internal dialogue).
And continue to experiment until you notice when shifting
one (Body or Language) shifts the other.
And when this happens, you have found a meaningful leverage
point for changing ones emotional state as well.
|